Back when I was an impressionable young girl in the 1980s I developed a real passion for action films and martial arts movies. (Okay, I still love them.) I loved the ‘Lethal Weapon’ series, the ‘Die Hard’ series, I’d seen all of Steven Seagal’s movies — (although after I’d found out he’d been beating his wife Kelly LeBrock, I was a little less enamoured of Mr. Seagal. And Mel Gibson — let’s not go there. When I think of Mel Gibson’s latter day behavior, the sound effects accompanying those thoughts are those of a gigantic, sucking maelstrom of a toilet flush. But how fun was he in the Lethal Weapon movies? Oh, to have been Renee Russo.)
Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, Bruce Willis, Jackie Chan, Chow Yun Fat, Nicholas Cage (‘The Rock’ and ‘Face Off’) — I loved all those big-budget blockbusters that those guys starred in — the more ridiculous and spectacular the chase scenes and explosions were, the more outrageous and creative the fight choreography, the pithier and more preposterous the one-liners — the more I loved it.
But for all my enthusiasm for all these action film stars, there was a special place reserved in my heart for Jean-Claude Van Damme. Yes, I know there’s a high cheese factor to all his movies, and to him too, for that matter, there’s always some contrived explanation for why he has a Belgian accent when he’s supposed to be American, or English, or Australian, or twins from two different countries, and he always has to find a way to do the splits in every movie, usually when he’s enroute to mashing his nemesis’ family jewels with a lethal fist, but he always seemed to be trying so hard to do a good job despite his obvious limitations. Like, in his heart of hearts, he knows he’s not the best actor, or the smartest guy, but he’ll give it his best shot because he’s happy to be making a movie. And there’s something kind of earnest and endearing about all that effort.
Nothing to do with the chiseled jaw and rippling biceps. Really. Okay, minimally, it had something to do with his chiseled jaw and twelve-pack.
It’s been a long time since Mr. Van Damme has had a hit movie, and I really haven’t thought much about him over the years. So imagine my surprise when, this weekend in Bangkok, while we were heading to the bar in the Kempinski Hotel to have drinks, George, who knows of my former soft spot for Jean-Claude, told me to go walk back out to the lobby and have a look — I’d walked right by him, but Jean-Claude Van Damme was sitting in the lobby with a baseball cap. He said, ‘It’s definitely him — I went back out for a second look.’
Before you could say ‘Kickboxer’, I was heading back to the lobby, trailed by Jackie and Lisa. Inconspicuously (NOT) we pretended to be looking at the awesome decor of the lobby, while standing around sneaking peeks.
Joy: ‘Yep, it’s definitely him. For sure.’
Jackie: ‘No, it’s not him. He’s so OLD. He looks so OLD. It’s not him.’
Joy: ‘Uh, yeah, it’s definitely him. Of course he’s old. We’re all old.’
I take another peek.
‘Besides, hello, the baseball cap with the initials JCVD embroidered across the front? I think that’s a dead giveaway.’
Lisa bursts into laughter.
We walk back to the bar to our awaiting lychee martinis, already a little buzzed with our tiny brush with B-movie has-been celebrity-dom.
We sit back down with our really strong drinks and after a few sips and a bit of nostalgia about all the great action films of the ’80s (factoid: did you know that Dolph Lundgren of Rocky IV fame received a FULBRIGHT SCHOLARSHIP to attend MIT?) when Lisa, maybe a little star-struck, but clearly buzzed, turned suddenly to me and said, ‘You need to blog about this!’
Further inspired, she added, ‘You should go and ask him to take a photo with you and then you have to blog about it!’
I have never gone up to a celebrity before and asked for an autograph or photo — but two sips of cinnamon lychee martini had gone straight to my brain and switched off whatever part of my mind is responsible for reminding me that I’m not a star-struck, ditzy 23-year-old action-star groupie, and neither are my friends.
Before you could say ‘Bloodsport’, I had forced Betty, Lisa and Jackie to get off the sofa and follow me back to the lobby — although, I can’t say there really was any arm-twisting involved AT ALL — with John Lam trailing behind, ready to play paparazzi.
Sadly, there was little originality to my approach. But with my friends watching, I marched gamely up to him and said, ‘Excuse me, are you Jean-Claude Van Damme?’
Memorable, right?
JCVD: ‘Why, yes, I am.’
Joy: ‘My friends and I were wondering if you might be willing to take a photograph with us?’
JCVD: ‘Sure. I’d be happy to.’
After the flurry of introductions, which he probably paid no attention to, he arranged for us to flank either side of him, two on each side, sheltered under his, yes, rippling biceps. They’re not visible in the photos, but they are seriously there. John snapped the photo and then,
JCVD: ‘Now, you girls switch.’
Huh?
JCVD: ‘The girls on the outside, next to me, now.’
We rearrange ourselves, smile, and the camera goes off again.
JCVD: ‘Now, each of you can have an individual shot with me.’
At this point, my friends start demurring, but Betty offers me up — ‘Joy would be happy to.’
I step forward, thinking, uh, happy with just the group shot, but ookay. ‘Sure, I’d love one.’ And, why not?
Photos over, we say our ‘thank-yous’ and head back off to the bar, as he sits back down to his little table in the middle of the lobby.
Jackie: ‘Wow, he has really big muscles!‘
Then: ‘I think we made his day, recognizing him.’
I’d say it’s very possible we did.
And, here are the photos:
'Gather around, girls.'
'Now, switch.'
My personal photo with Jean-Claude.
All kidding aside, even if he had parked himself in the lobby of the Kempinski hoping to be recognized, he was very gracious to us, accommodating our intrusion with more patience than he needed to show.
And yes, he does look older. (He’s 50.) A glance at any of the biographical information available on him shows struggles with cocaine and other drugs, failed marriages, spectacularly unsuccessful movie projects. Life has not always been that easy for him.
It’s nice to know that he got rave critical reviews on his project ‘JCVD’ (no, he didn’t just have his initials embroidered on his cap — it’s actually the name of a movie), a ‘mockumentary’ in which he plays himself. According to Time magazine, Jean-Claude ‘deserves not a black belt, but an Oscar’ for his performance in JCVD. I haven’t seen it yet, probably because it’s in French, but I wish him all the best. Especially, since he’s not just a crush from my youth, but also, now, a fellow Hong-Konger.
When we tripped back into the bar, we tried to recount our encounter with JCVD to the spouses; but they had seen everything. Unbeknownst to us, the husbands had snuck up behind us and stood peeking around the corner to observe the goings-on. (If you enlarge my photo with JCVD — keep clicking on it — you’ll see them back in the shadowy recesses of the hallway, reluctant to come closer, spying on their wives. So funny.)
Lisa was the funniest. A while later, she turns to me and out of nowhere says, ‘You should have told Jean-Claude, we live in Hong Kong too! Do you regret not telling him?’
‘Why should I have done that?’
Lisa: ‘You could have said, ‘Hey, look us up when you’re back in Hong Kong! We should go out sometime and hang together!’
I’m sure there’s nothing he’d like better than to ‘hang’ with four married, middle-aged women.
If he hasn’t hit rock bottom yet, that should just about do it for him.
But, I have to say… while I can’t speak for my friends, and certainly not for JCVD, the encounter with a fond memory from my youth, however brief and meaningless, was a fun and memorable little experience. Our trip to Bangkok, was, as always, wonderful (more on that at a later time); but this was a bit of extra effervescence in the champagne glass. So fun.