Going back to Cali

Primarily a photo post of San Francisco and Marin County, which I never had a chance to post.  Did I mention, I LOVED Northern California?

Someday, when I grow up, that’s where I’m moving.

San Francisco — Haight-Ashbury

Afraid we’ll start off again with one for the style critics.

In case you can't read it, the window says 'THIS WHOLE OUTFIT COSTS UNDER $80'

This, is the outfit of reference.  ‘Nuf said.

Costs under $80, and the pants alone are priceless.

Ahh, the good ol' days. Alas, not mine.

This is more my speed

As is this. Anyone who remembers the tie-dye fair tees from a few years back will appreciate this pic.

It takes conviction and courage to live in a purple house. And, a sense of humor.

Continuing the purple theme... I passed by a farmer's market and bought some preserves. Check out the gorgeous colors in these potatoes.

Views from Sausalito:

love the signal flags

The colors are so lovely. That middle layer is fog.

Sailboats are romantic; sailboats at sunset, that's super-romantic

you can never have too much romance

Okay, that’s it for now.  More boats are in the pipeline…

Durgin Park

Good ole Yankee cooking. I say, yummm.

Durgin Park in Boston’s Faneuil Hall has a special place in my heart.  Yes, I know it’s an egregious tourist trap, and the food isn’t nearly as good as it used to be (and, why is that?  How much finesse does it take to steam a lobster, or deep fry haddock?) and the waitresses all date back to the golden Jeffersonian era — most of them remember back when the States were a mere thirteen colonies — but, I don’t care.  I love it.

I was in high school the first time my dad brought me there — Boston was a hop, skip and a jump from Maine, where we lived years ago, and so he was proud to be bringing me back to his old stomping grounds.  It was family-style dining, meaning we were seated with whomever else felt like going to Durgin Park that day, with those heavy cotton red-checked tablecloths covering the tables.  I remember we sat next to two kindly elderly (well, they seemed elderly to me when I was 15 — they were probably in their forties) ladies who were visiting from the midwest.

I was entranced by the crochety New England vibe — plain, no-nonsense, straight-talking, unceremonious, not to a fault, but to a virtue — and the mountainous portions of steamers, lobsters, cornbread, chowdah and Indian pudding (cornmeal pudding flavored with molasses — yes, not for everyone, but I love it).  There’s something so unabashedly Yankee about the whole experience — I found it WONDERFUL.

When my dad came to visit me in college, he would always suggest that we drive up to Boston from Providence to Durgin Park for lobster.  He always recalled with a certain amount of satisfied glee that when my roommate Dianne came with us, she ordered not one, but TWO one-and-a-half pound lobsters for dinner.  “That girl could eat!”, he’d say, fondly.

So, it was with a certain amount of nostalgia that I brought my own children to Durgin Park three years ago — and, while the bowl of steamers that came as my appetizer were not nearly as generous as I remembered, boy, did they love it.

As steamers are not very appetizing looking (they look like slimy, invertebrate sea creatures with squidgy boy-part-like appendages — which is exactly what they are), I didn’t count on having to share them.  I only offered them to be polite.  Much to my chagrin, my gastronomically adventurous children quickly got the hang of peeling off the tough condom-like membrane off their breathing tubes, swishing them in the broth to wash off the sand, dunking them in the melted butter and popping the delicious morsels in their mouths.

We had to order more.

This is a steamer. Proof that butter can make anything appetizing.

In fact, the kids enjoyed Durgin Park so much, that we went back the next day.

And so, you can imagine their excitement when I told them that their grandmother wanted to take them to Durgin Park for dinner while we were in Boston.

check out the size of the cuts of meat next to Joey -- they make him look petite!

just a little bit crotchety

damn straight

family photo

Joey -- prepped for the Clam Bake -- lobsters, steamers, corn on the cob, boiled potatoes -- but no one eats the potatoes. Check out the bratty baby sister.

Andrew -- posing with a steamer. (I'm referring to the one in his hand, not the invertebrate standing next to him.)

After gorging ourselves on lobsters, steamers, clam chowder, fried clams, corn bread, prime rib, strawberry shortcake and Indian pudding, we had to walk around in order to feel human again, and not like stuffed scrod.

Joey, walking with Popo and toting our leftovers

Somehow, eating New England cuisine makes hip hop gangstas of our offspring

No idea what Nick Nack is doing, but it looks funny.

We also came across the Holocaust Memorial on the Freedom Trail.  If you’re ever in Boston, please do go.  My kids walked through it, read all the inscriptions and came away very moved.

To quote from the website which describes it much better than I ever could  (http://www.nehm.org/intro.html):

The design utilizes uniquely powerful symbols of the Holocaust. The Memorial features six luminous glass towers, each 54 feet high. The towers are lit internally to gleam at night. They are set on a black granite path, each one over a dark chamber which carries the name of one of the principal Nazi death camps. Smoke rises from charred embers at the bottom of these chambers. Six million numbers are etched in glass in an orderly pattern, suggesting the infamous tattooed numbers and ghostly ledgers of the Nazi bureaucracy. Evocative and rich in metaphor, the six towers recall the six main death camps, the six million Jews who died, or a menorah of memorial candles.

The six towers of the Holocaust Memorial at twilight

One of the inscribed quotations by Martin Neimoeller

There was also a free outdoor concert going on across the street at City Hall.  We got to enjoy a bit of it.

Samantha, taking advantage of Joey's shoulders and willingness to be sat upon.

That’s it for Boston.  Maine, still to come…

Out and about in Boston

First, a little style commentary, for all you fashionistas out there.

spiffy!

What kind of man, I asked aloud, would wear a cream-and-mint linen suit?

Gayle:  “He’s European, and married with kids.

“And, that, incidentally, is NOT his wife.”

Well, we don’t know that for sure, but probably a good idea that I took the photo from behind.  As per my usual practice of chasing after unsuspecting victims and snapping on the run — honestly, that’s because I’m often perfectly happy to let fashion victims go about their merry way, but for egging on by sisters, husbands and good friends who urge in frantic whispers — ‘you HAVE to get that for the blog!  GO!!!’ And, obediently, I GO.

Someday, someone should take a photo of me sheepishly cantering in a surreptitious manner (I HOPE), after badly dressed people.  THAT would be funnier than any of the fashion ‘don’ts’ I’ve brought you.

So, we spent a day in Boston en-route to Maine.  We met my sisters, mom and nephews in the afternoon, and while Mom slept the sleep of the jetlagged in the airconditioned comfort of the Lenox Hotel off Copley Square, the sisters took the offspring for a walkabout around the nearby (and sweltering) environs, including the Boston Common

.  Man, it was hot.

But, some nice photo ops — I love Boston:

something old, something new...

I think Rapunzel's bedroom might be through this window.

All the cousins on the steps of the Boston Public Library.

Inscribed on the side of the building is the statement:

‘The Commonwealth Requires the Education of the People as the Safeguard of Order and Liberty’

I like that, alot.

The Boston Public Library.

one final architectural shot. love the details on these old churches.

Gorgeous tree at entrance to the Common

We walked around for a bit, but it was too hot to find the ducklings (the bronze duckling sculpture of “Make Way for Ducklings” fame.  We flopped down in the nearest shade we could find.

Made in the shade...

A nice one of Gayle.

Probably my favorite shot that afternoon. Philip and Nicky.

Hot, but still smiling.

Kickin' back on the streets of Boston

All hot and sweaty and longing for air con.

A tree made for daydreaming under.

That’s it for Boston in the afternoon.  There was Durgin Park that evening, but more on that later.

And pics of Maine, to follow.

And now, for the milkshakes

The experimentation continues — this time, deliciously.

team work

 

Yummy coming up

You guys have to understand — we live in Hong Kong, where it’s so rare for the kids to have unfettered and unsupervised time in the kitchen, to play, to experiment and to make a mess.

And then, to have to clean it up by themselves.

Sam and Anna

I have been remiss — have been lolling about in the sun and warm attentions of great friends here in northern California, and have completely neglected blogging.

Right now, I’m watching Sam and my goddaughter Anna, in the kitchen playing chemist, trying to make lavender oil from lavender they picked while walking the dogs this morning.  They’ve used Margaret’s handheld blender to break the lavender apart in bowls they’ve soaked the lavender in —  separate bowls, so they each get to do one bowl, and a third one for an as-yet-unspecified ‘experiment’.

(Next time Margaret makes salad dressing, she’s in for a surprise.)

It’s so interesting, listening to the two girls debate the process and work together, and work out the balance of power in this friendship.  These two girls, both the only girls in their families with two brothers and fathers who are wound around their little fingers (read: accustomed to getting their own way) are doing a lovely job of compromising and taking turns and I love seeing this godsister relationship grow and unfold.

The entire room smells like a lavender field — and their two heads, bent together, one sporting a pert brown ponytail and the other, a shiny black bob, are intently peering into a canning jar with great seriousness and purpose.

I cannot imagine a moment more contented than this.

adding lemon oils, when the lemon balm ran out

Godsisters rock

They are even washing their implements and cleaning up the kitchen together, divvying up the tasks fairly and cooperatively.

Not sure how long it will last, but, for the time being, I LOVE it!

Religious beliefs

The other day, as we were driving through Princeton with Samantha, George pointed out his old kindergarten, which is situated on Nassau St. in a big Catholic church.

Sam:  “Dad, are you Catholic?  I didn’t know that!”

George:  “Umm, well, yeah, I guess.”

Me:  “What about you, Sam?  What do you think you are?”

Sam:  “Uhh, an atheist?”

Me:  “Well, Sweetie, an atheist is someone who doesn’t believe in the existence of a God.  Maybe you need to learn a little more about religion before you can decide you’re an atheist.

“If someone asks you what you are, and you’re not sure, then you can either just say, you’re not sure what you believe, or, you can just say, you’re not religious.”

Sam:  “Weelll… I believe in Santa Claus, and Santa Claus is related to Christmas, and Christmas is a Christian holiday.  So, what does that make me?”

Me:  “An opportunist?”

Yeah, I really said that.  I’m a terrible mom.

Having said that, I’m a big believer in Santa Claus too.